Waiting by Carol Lynch Williams [G!veaway Alert]

Publication Date: May 1st, 2012
Simon & Schuster
Format: Hardcover, 352 pages
RATING: 5 out of 5 Stars
SUMMARY
After her brother’s death, a teen struggles to rediscover love and find redemption in this gripping novel.

Growing up in Africa and Latin America as the children of missionaries, London and Zach were as close as could be. And then Zach dies, and the family is gutted. London’s father is distant. Her mother won’t speak. The days are filled with what-ifs and whispers: Did Zach take his own life? Was it London’s fault?

Alone and adrift, London finds herself torn between her brother’s best friend and the handsome new boy in town as she struggles to find herself—and ultimately redemption—in this authentic and affecting novel from award-winning novelist Carol Lynch Williams.

Written in free-form verse, Waiting told the story of a family’s crippling, destructive grief that for a time or two, didn’t seem like there was an end. Ms. Williams’ words and the method in which she told the story made it infinitely more painful. The palpable grief and loneliness that the characters felt seeped through the pages, contaminating the reader and consequently taking them to an emotional journey wracked with agonizing pain.

London was one of those characters who felt too much; too much grief, too much sorrow, too much love and at the same time anaesthecized to feel anything otherwise. As a result, her ache becomes your ache. You’ve got to be a stone-hearted statue not to feel for her. For once, I didn’t feel like I wanted to choke a character for making bad decisions in her life. For once, I supported her when she thought she could hide the two boys in her life without the other knowing. I wanted her to feel like she wasn’t immune to other feelings other than grief. The oblivion those boys could offer, though innocent, is deserved. The girl needed a bit of happy in her otherwise bleak, miserable, depressing, hopeless existence.

I don’t know how a person so seemingly strong could be defeated by something as a break-up that he thought the answer was suicide.

I don’t know how parents can turn off their parental instincts.

I don’t know how to emphatize with people so distraught that their world comes to a screeching halt altogether.

I don’t know how to get over the death of someone who was your entire universe that you forget there are other people orbiting around you – propelling you to go on.

This book, however, will make you feel like you’re London – carrying the guilt and the suffocating weight of her loss but fighting to dig herself out of the hole. I, however, couldn’t find it in me to feel for her mother who blamed London for Zach’s death. Listen, I get it. Suicide, depression – they’re messy, heart breaking, and no matter how much you want to say you understand, you can’t. You DON’T. Unless you’ve been there. But I know something about parenting. You don’t stop being a parent just because one of your children is gone. You don’t stop talking to her just because you’re so overcome with guilt yourself but can’t, won’t own up to it. Her father would rather work himself raw than face the reality of what was happening in his own home. That’s just cowardly. I also know something about suicide. But I will not sit here and pretend to understand a person’s state of mind at the time when he perceived life had become unliveable.

VERDICT: Waiting wasn’t a cake-walk read. No. It was difficult and messy. It’s like watching a loved one self-destruct right before your eyes and helping them pick up the pieces of the aftermath. I cried – sloppy tears in the middle of the night. It took me a little less than two hours to finish this book…and about two days to stop thinking about it.

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  • Thanks for the giveaway! This is the first I've heard of this book, but I usually really like books written in verse and this one sounds great! I'll definitely have to add it to my tbr list : )

  • I haven't read any books writing in verse. I would love to see how it is different from the usual writing style. Thanks for the giveaway. xoxo

    -wni

  • Sam

    This book looks amazing! Thank you so much for the giveaway! 😀

  • Thanks for this awesome giveaway! 🙂

  • Leaving love for you…. I love leaving you love lol Great review lady!! I think how you summed up your feelings in the end is what really caught me. “It was difficult and messy. It's like watching a loved one self-destruct right before your eyes and helping them pick up the pieces of the aftermath.” <--- TOTALLY NEED!! Thank you so much for such a great review and thanks again for the giveaway you are so generous!!

  • Na

    This doesn't sound like an easy read and I just know it's going to make me feel. That's a good thing!

  • This sounds like one of those books that make you really thankful and realize that when you think your life sucks it really could be worse!

    Thanks for the chance!

  • I don't know if I will stand to read this book… but I want to. My heart is ready for some grief and to eat a whole bucket of ice cream *or two*. Great review!

  • Oh man, now this sounds like a gripping book. My heart hurts just from reading your review.

  • Beautiful, beautiful review Joy!!!!

  • I had never heard of this book.thanks so much for review and giveaeaway.Lomazowr@gmail.com

  • I haven't read this book yet but I really want to read

  • I really want to read this book. A messy read with lots of tears- I'll have to gear up for it but it sounds like it's worth it.

    Valerie
    StuckInBooks.com

  • This seems to be the kind of book that I like to read. Great review!
    And thanks for the giveaway!

  • I never heard of this book before and I love poignant reads! definitely checking this one out!

    ~Jay
    We Fancy Books